Japanese Mail Order Brides – Find Japanese Women for Marriage

Japanese Mail Order Bride Catalog

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Jump to: What are Japanese women like | Where to meet a Japanese woman for marriage | Japanese mail order bride cost | What makes Japanese girls look for husbands abroad

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“Memoirs of a Geisha” is just one proof of the never-ending fascination of Western men with exotic and mysterious Japanese women, with their porcelain skin and delicate manners. If you’re in love with Japanese culture and wish to find a Japanese spouse, you’ve come to the right place.

We’ll share everything you need to know on the best places to find Japanese brides and how to win their hearts and build lasting relationships. Signing up for a free account is the first step to a happily ever after.

Here is a sneak peek at what you need to know even before meeting your future Japanese bride.

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Brief points

Here’s a quick summary for those who don’t have time to read the whole post:

• Japanese ladies are polite, punctual, and feminine but may seem too cold and standoffish compared to American women.
• Online dating expenses can range from $200 to $500 per month, depending on your communication style and activity level.
• The overall cost of a Japanese mail order bride starts at $4,500 and depends on your preferences and choices.
• There is a chance to meet a Japanese bride in the US, especially in big metropolitan areas like LA, NY, or SF.
• Traveling to Japan is the costliest and least effective way to meet Japanese brides, but it can be an integral part of your online dating journey.
• Being aware of online dating risks and pitfalls can help you avoid scammers, bots, and fake profiles.
• Japanese society is pretty sexist and discriminatory, leaving single mothers to struggle with poverty; that’s why so many Japanese girls are looking for foreign husbands.

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What are Japanese women like, or why should you take a Japanese woman for a wife?

Let’s make it clear right away: Japanese mail order brides are not perfect because no one is. But these facts should help you decide if one of them could become perfect for you:

❗ There are both good and bad sides when it comes to beautiful Japanese women. They are great, but if you are serious about finding a Japanese mail order wife, well, you’ll have to make compromises, like you would in any relationship.

 If you’re eager to get to know real Japanese mail order brides and see for yourself what makes them different, our catalog holds dozens of options that won’t disappoint.

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Where & how to meet a Japanese woman for marriage?

Unless your friends or family set you up on a blind date with a Japanese woman, there are three options to consider when looking for an exotic bride. Let’s consider their benefits and drawbacks to help you make an informed decision.

Online dating

First, let’s talk about online dating. Here’s what you need to do to meet Japanese mail order brides online.

• Find a decent dating website. You’ll have to read a lot of reviews and test a few sites yourself, but it’s a must if you want to find a trusted Japanese mail order bride platform.
• Sign up and create a profile. Upload your best photos and write a catchy profile bio.
• Buy a premium subscription/credits. Even if you somehow find a free Japanese mail order brides platform, there are always premium options, and premium users always get more messages.
• Chat with Japanese girls. Be honest, be serious, and be a gentleman, but don’t be too confident or manly—that’s not what Japanese women like in men.
• Meet them in person. Chatting with Japanese women is fun, but if you are interested in a serious relationship, you should meet them IRL.

Now, a few words about the pros and cons of searching for a Japanese wife online.

So in our opinion, it’s cheaper and much more convenient to meet Japanese beauties online than offline. However, it’s not free, and you’ll still need to spend around $100-$150 per month to chat with local girls and also need to do your research to choose a trusted dating platform.

But, well, the latter isn’t necessary. Our experts have already analyzed and tested dozens of dating sites with Asian women, so you just need to read the reviews and choose the website that fits your requirements best.

Japanese women in the US

You can also meet a Japanese lady without integrating into Japanese society. The Japanese population in the US is 1.5 million, so it’s possible to meet a lady without leaving your country. Here are the top 3 places where you can find a future Japanese wife:

• Go to Los Angeles, San Francisco, or New York—these are the top cities with the highest number of Japanese residents outside Japan. Clubs, bars, and cafes are your best options there. Try Suehiro cafe, and Ohjah Lounge in LA, Japantowns in SF and LA, or Manhattan bars/clubs.
• Meet them during Japanese American celebrations. Visit the Obon Festival (July/August) across the country or Cherry Blossom Festival/Japanese Heritage Fair in Honolulu, HI.
• Visit a Japanese language school. You’ll most likely meet a lot of Japanese women there, but what’s more important, you’ll learn their language, which will help you in the future.

However, this method also has many pros and cons, so read on.

It’s possible to meet Japanese girls in the US. It can be quite stressful and probably not the best option for you if you’re not that great at approaching women on the streets, but still, it’s possible.

Traveling to Japan

Most Japanese ladies live in Japan—so if you want to meet them in person, you need to go there. You don’t need all those international dating sites: all you need is to book the flight and the hotel room and plan a trip. However, it’s not that easy.

You can go there and meet Japanese women in Japan, of course. The main problem here is that your chances of meeting a Japanese girl who will speak English and be interested in dating a foreign man are not that high if you’re doing it on the streets of Tokyo or Yokohama. It’s not 0%, but the chances are not high at all, to put it mildly.

As you can see, meeting Japanese women online is the #1 option you need to try. It’s convenient and fast, it’s not as stressful as meeting them offline, and what’s also important, meeting Japanese girls online is affordable. You’ll need to spend around $3,000-$5,000 for a 2-week trip to Tokyo, and a dating site only costs $100-$200 per month!

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Problems of online dating

We’ve been in the business of online dating long enough to highlight its biggest issues that drive men away and make them weary of dating sites. But forewarned is forearmed, and with our tips, you’ll easily overcome any pitfalls.

Problem	Solution
Online dating sites are never 100% safe from scammers	You can avoid them by sticking to verified profiles, checking photo ownership, and reporting abuse when anything seems amiss.And never share your financial or personal details with strangers.
Japanese mail order brides are too good to be true	Chatting with a woman for a few minutes should be enough to decide if her profile is realistic. So don’t be afraid to ask pointed questions and compare the responses to their profile details.
There aren’t enough Japanese brides online to choose from	First, consider removing some search filters to broaden the search. If that doesn’t help, consider learning more about ladies from neighboring countries, such as South Korea, China, or Vietnam.
New members are overwhelmed by the number of incoming messages	You don’t have to respond to every email or chat invitation. Instead, review the ladies’ profiles and only engage with those you find compatible. You can ignore default questions, photos, and videos to save your credits.
Many of men’s messages remain unnoticed and remain without reply	The competition is pretty stiff, so you need to make your profile stand out, especially your photo. You should also tailor your first message to the lady’s profile to pique her interest instead of resorting to bland compliments.

As far as we’re concerned, none of these issues are deal breakers, but if you encounter any other troubles, contact us, and we’ll do our best to help.

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How much does it cost to get a Japanese mail order bride?

Obviously, you cannot buy a Japanese bride online. So when we’re discussing the cost, we merely account for the dating expenses you would incur throughout your search and courting. These include online dating expenses, as well as a couple of trips to Japan or a third country, visa application fees, moving and shipping, and wedding spending.

Here are some basic online dating expenses calculations based on our rates:

• Writing first letters to at least 10 women — 20×10=200 credits
• Live chat, at least 30 minutes a day — 3x10x20=60 credits per day (1800 credits per month)
• Exchanging 1 photo per day — 30×10=300 credits per month
• Exchanging 1 video per week — 4×25=100 credits per month

At this pace, you’ll spend around 2,400 credits per month, which amounts to around $500. However, that level of expenses will only last a month or two while you’re actively looking for the right match. Once you establish a relationship with a Japanese bride, your spending will likely be reduced by half, and a 1,000-credit package (worth $200) should be enough to last you a month.

• One week travel (tickets + hotel): $1,600² for a round-trip flight, from $140³ (cheap hostel) to $2,100⁴ (fancy hotel) for a hotel
• Visa and documents: $2,025⁵
• Wedding: from $700-$1,500⁶ if you only need a modest wedding ceremony to $20,000⁷ (average wedding cost in Japan and the US)
• Total: from $4,565 (cheap hostel, modest wedding) to $26,000 (fancy hotel, expensive wedding)

As you can see, your expenses can be as high or as low as you make them, depending on your communication style, preferences, travel choices, and a dozen other factors. The main takeaway here is that marrying a Japanese woman isn’t as costly as you believe, and there are plenty of ways to stay on budget.

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Why do Japanese women look for love abroad?

We’re used to thinking of Japan as a successful country, so Japanese mail order brides are an oddity rather than the norm. Still, dozens of Japanese women marry foreigners every year, and they have good reasons for that:

1. Although 30.25 million⁸ women are working in Japan, the country has one of the highest gender pay gaps among OECD countries at 22.1%⁹, so it’s no wonder ambitious young women would prefer better career and pay prospects elsewhere.
2. Sexism is deeply entrenched in Japanese culture. From ex-Prime Minister Yoshiro Mori claiming women “talk too much” to the fact that 40%¹⁰ of women experience unprompted touching and sexual questions in the workplace, Japan isn’t the best place for women seeking to build a successful career.
3. 90%¹¹ of single parents are mothers, and while the majority of them hold jobs, 48.3% live in poverty, while only 20% of divorced men pay child support. While few single mothers are looking to marry foreigners, girls who prefer to avoid such a fate are flocking to dating sites.
4. While only 20% to 30% of the Japanese admit to having cheated on their partners, 84%¹² of Japanese women consider their husbands’ affairs to be beneficial for their marriages. Ladies with strong family values may prefer to marry foreigners to avoid infidelity.

All things considered, it’s a wonder we see so few Japanese mail order brides seeking better treatment at work and home. And it’s in your power to make one of them happy if you find the right person.

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Why you can trust us?

We researched and explored the online dating market for years to understand its benefits and flaws before creating our own dating catalog. After testing dozens of dating sites, reading thousands of bad reviews, and stumbling across a handful of scammers, we implemented this newfound knowledge to create a safe and convenient way to connect singles with compatible matches across the globe.

Aside from an extensive knowledge base, we share personal experiences, advice, and guides to increase your chances of a successful relationship. It’s absolutely risk-free, so start your international online dating journey today!

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